We watched the "Amazing Show" last night at the former Film Theatre (nope, I didn't see any dead people, sigh) courtesy of our new boss.

Yeah, they were damn lovely. As in! :-D Haha, makes me want to be gay if I would be THAT interested in looking good.

The audience was mostly Koreans, on a tour no doubt. (I later found out that the producer of the show was Korean.) An officemate (a girl at that) was not able to resist touching the stars of the show, and made one comment. FLAWLESS!!!! And they were. :-) Makes you wonder how much they spend to maintain that look.

Anyway, if anybody is interested to watch, just let me know, I'll tell, The Boss. Hahaha. See yah there! :-)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. (True!)

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. (True uli! Nakakasawa yan!)

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. (Pag sa umpisa pa lang may mali na, itapon na yan!)

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. (True, otherwise your happiness will be wholly dependent on him!)

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck NO, you can't "be friends." (Agree, 100%)

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. (Hmp!!! No comment.)

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. (Hmmmm...)

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in arelationship is YOU.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? (Tamaan na ang guilty!)

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. (Wag pumayag maging doormat! Ouch, tinamaan ako dun ah!)

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.

You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or is in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothingless. (Hay, huli na...)

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. (Bato-bato sa langit...)

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a 2-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggages... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complementary... not supplementary.

Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others. (True, ipakita mo na may iba pang tao sa paligid mo para magising sa katotohanan ang mga taong feeling!)

Time is...

Very slow for those who expect..

Very fast for those who are afraid..

Very long for those who regret..

Very short for those who celebrate.

But, for those who LOVE..

Time is eternity.

**** Hehehe, chowi, thought you understood :-) roughly yan yun, pero may isa pa yang ending, Time is not. Mas gusto ko lang tong nilagay ko kasi mas may impact :-)
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Hahaha! :-D

El tiempo es...

Muy lento para los que esperan..

Muy rápido para los que tienen miedo..

Muy largo para los que se lamentan..

Muy corto para los que festejan.

Pero, para los que aman..

El tiempo es eternidad...

Meet Ruff!

What's a Meantime Girl?

She's the one you call when you're bored because she makes you laugh.

She's the one you talk to when you're feeling down because she's willing to lend an ear and be a friend.

She's not the one you call when you need a date to your company's Christmas party, or to go dancing with on a Saturday night.

She's the one you spend time with between girlfriends, before you find "THE ONE." You know, the one who you keep around for the meantime.

She's not one of the guys, not a tomboy, but you don't look at her as a "REAL WOMAN", either.

She's not bitchy enough, moody enough, or sexy enough to be seen in that light.

She's too laid back, too easily amused by the same hings your male buddies are easily amused by.

She's too understanding, too comfortable.

She doesn't make you feel nervous or excited the way a "real woman" does.

But she's cool, and nice, and funny, and attractive enough that when you're lonely or horny, and need an intimate female companionship, she'll do just fine.

You don't have to wine and dine with her because she knows the real you already, and you don't have any facades to keep up, no pretenses to preserve.

You're not trying to get anything of substance out of her.

She's not easy, but you know that she cares about you and is attracted to you, and that she'll give you the intimacy you need.

And you know that you don't have to explain yourself or the situation, that she'll be able to cope with the fact that this isn't the beginning of a relationship or that there's any possibility that you have any romantic feelings for her.

It won't bother her that you get up in the morning, put on you pants, say goodbye, and go on a date with a woman you've been mooning over for weeks who finally agreed to go out with you.

She'll settle for a goodbye hug and a promise to call her and tell her how the date went.

She's just so cool..why can't all women be like that?

But deep down, if you really think about it (which you probably don't because to you, the situation between the two of you isn't important enough to merit any real thought), you know that it's really not fair.

You know that although she would never say it, it hurts her to know that despite all her good points, and all the fun you two have, you don't think she's good enough to spend any real time with.

Sure it's mostly her fault, because she doesn't have to give in to your needs.

She could play the hard-to-get-bitch like the rest of them do, if she really wanted to.

But you and she both know that she probably couldn't pull it off.

Maybe she's too short, or a little overweight, or has a big birthmark on her forehead, or works at Taco Bell, or just really not that type.

Whatever the reason, somehow life has given her a lot of really great qualities but has left out the ones that men really want (or think they want) in a woman.

So she remains forever the funny, steadfast companion, the secret lover, and you go on searching for your goddess who will somehow be everything you ever wanted in a woman.

You'll joke to her that she should be the best man at your wedding, and she'll laugh and make a joke about a smelly rental tux.

She doesn't captivate you with her beauty, or open doors with her smile.

Mainly, she blends in with the crowd.

She's safe.

She doesn't want to be the center of attention and turn the heads of everyone in the room.

But she wants to turn someone's head.

She wants to be special to someone, too.

We all do. She has feelings.

She has a heart.

In fact, she probably has a big heart than any woman you've ever known because she's had a front-row seat to the Mess-That-Is-Your-Life, she likes you anyway.

She obviously sees something worthwhile and redeeming in you because although you've given her nothing, absolutely no reason to still be around, she is.

Anyway, yeah, I'm a Meantime Girl.

Been one more times than I care to admit. I don't know the reason, really, and at this point, I don't even care. I just want to let every guy know whos's ever had the good fortune to have a Meantime Girl that we may be a lot of fun, but we do cry too.

And someday, we won't be around.

* dunno who wrote this. Hahhaahahahah! Funny. :-) Yeah, I WON'T stay around. Duh!